Was talking to
Miss Slow on MSN last night about what kinds of girls I like. Obviously, everybody is beginning to think that I'm getting a little too old and I should not remain single for very much longer.
Anyway, we did not go very much into details, but I thought a bit about it afterwards. To me, I believe that
every girl has their own charm and is beautiful in their own way, and given the right opportunity, they will find somebody who like them for just the way they are. (This is obviously written to save my backside from the attacks of angry feminists readers)
On the physical side, I like girls that are
slim. I think that is like the No. 1 criteria I see in the physical part a girl. I like girls that are slim, with a waist of maybe 24 or 25". The finest example is my favourite
Miss Slow. Heehee. Tall girls are nice but short girls are sweet too. So basically I'm not too bothered by the height of the girls I like.
I also like girls with
fair porcelin skin, like silk. A dash redness on the cheeks would be a nice addition. In fact, any girl with this combination of fair complexion and rosy cheeks will definitely sweep me off my feet. In the words of my good friend Desmond, I "like those '
white,
white,
pink,
pink' one".
FF has the best complexion that I know. Perfectly fair and flawless. But a bit lacking in the rosy cheek department, unless she's had her fill of beer. Haha.
In addition, I prefer
long hair to short,
big eyes to small,
sharp face to round face,
high nose bridge to a flat one. But all these, I realised, are not veto in my infatuations. The most important facial feature to me, for as long as I have liked girls, has to be the
lips. I dunno how to describe the lips that I like
(definitely not the BIG mouth type), just something I know when I sees it. Almost all the girls I have liked I evaluate how their lips look to me above all else. Ha. Perfect lips? Haven't found anybody yet. Pretty lips, a few.
Unlike most guys, I do not go for ladies with
BIG mammaries. In fact, most of the girls I like have small mammaries, due to their super slim body nature. Also, I'm not a very
legs person. Long slender legs are nice but also, they are not deciding when I get infatuated with a girl.
Yes, butt is not important to me also.
That's all I can think of for the physical department. Now for the character/ personality department. Normally, for a guy, this only comes after he has sufficiently acquainted with the physical part of the girl. But for me, I think the look of the eye and certain body language can tell a lot about a person's character and personality on the 1st encounter. As they say, the eyes are the window to the souls.
My number one pet favourite type of girl is the
SWEET and DEMURE type. I would totally kill for this type of girl. Unfortunately, I have only known one of such girl. It is
Her. She is the
ultimate SWEET and DEMURE type. There is no one more SWEET and DEMURE than her. But too bad, she never reciprocate my feelings.
There's one time I had this fetish for the
Sassy Girl type. Haha. That's right, it was after I watched the movie 3 times. I dun know many girls like that though, the closest I get is
FF. Hahaha. Other types that I would like:
The
Elegant type, like my present cell leader. The 1st time I talked to her I was like "
Woah! I feel like I'm talking to a princess!"
The
Girlish type, like my present tenant
Melissa. Not too girlish though. If not I cannot take it also. A little girlish is fine, not too much. (Mel, if you are reading this, I'm not saying you too girlish k? =] )
Haha. That's about it I guess. Not very hard to meet my criteria right? So why issit so hard to find one I liked?? Haha. Just kidding. Like I said (again),
Every girl has their own charm and is beautiful in their own way.
Actually, for the past few days, I have been thinking a bit about her. Yes, I have given up already. But I still cannot put aside my feelings for her. The best I can do is not think about it. But its a bit hard, unless I burn all her photos and stuff... Time will heal all wounds and blur all memories? I hope so. In the mean time, here's a photo I took with her about 2 years ago, during my convocation ceremony...
Boy, I looked so young then.